Consultation on Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Help your clients reclaim their power from narcissists — without getting lost in the fog yourself.
“Thank you for the amazing training. It was what I was hoping for to give my staff a broad overview regarding identifying adult children of narcissists, symptoms and expectations for treatment. I really appreciated the introduction to IFS for my staff and your use of self-disclosure and humor. My staff really appreciated the actionable learning to further their work with clients. Thank you for fitting in so much in a short period of time. Your energy and expertise was fabulous and so relatable.”
-Fawn McNeil-Haber, PhD, founder of Brave Minds Psychological Services
Narcissistic abuse is insidious — and under-recognized in our field.
It doesn’t announce itself with dramatic overt behaviors.
It seeps in quietly — through covert control, emotional extraction, and the subtle erosion of self.
Clients arrive in our offices anxious, ashamed, over-responsible, and emotionally dysregulated — and yet they can’t name why.
They believe they are “too sensitive,” “too reactive,” or “the problem.”
What they are really describing are the effects of relational domination — not simple attachment wounds.
They need clinicians who can:
• name the abuse dynamics
• differentiate love from manipulation
• track trauma bonding in the nervous system
• guide them through the slow uncoupling of self from subjugation
Integrating IFS into Narcissistic Abuse Treatment
IFS accesses the right brain — the realm where narcissistic harm actually lands.
Guided visualization and internal witnessing allow clients to reconnect with:
~ intuition
~ emotion
~ unmetabolized grief
~ exiled identities
Clients don’t just understand — they re-inhabit themselves.
We work at the level of:
• inner children who never had protection
• protectors who learned to shrink, perform, or appease
• ancestral burdens carried for family systems
• shame imprints that became identity
As clients reclaim true Self qualities — clarity, compassion, confidence, courage, connectedness — they gain the capacity to break trauma bonds and transmute confusion into discernment.
This is where narcissistic abuse recovery becomes spiritual alchemy.
If you want to guide your clients out of the fog and back into their own knowing…
I invite you to reach out. I have been trained by:
• Dr. Ramani (narcissistic abuse recovery), and
• Dr. Lindsay Gibson (healing from emotionally immature parents)
My work is informed by both clinical depth and lived experience. I’ve learned where power hides, how trauma disguises itself, and what healing truly requires.
Narcissistic Abuse Consultation Includes:
• Parts Mapping: translating symptoms into IFS language and healing paths
• Psychoeducation: understanding narcissistic presentations and their impact on identity, attachment, and perception
• Navigating Estrangement: supporting boundary-setting, going no-contact, and grief processing
• Therapist Parts Work: identifying where your own history activates, unblending from countertransference, and staying resourced
• Trauma Bonding + Dissociation: tracking nervous system dynamics and attachment confusion
• Somatic + IFS Integration: witnessing, rescuing, and releasing exiled parts
• Intuition + Discernment Training: helping clients trust their internal signals again